{"id":376,"date":"2022-11-17T14:21:11","date_gmt":"2022-11-17T13:21:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/urkerdienstmeisjes.nl\/story-points\/married-and-then\/"},"modified":"2023-01-05T14:10:00","modified_gmt":"2023-01-05T13:10:00","slug":"married-and-then","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/urkerdienstmeisjes.nl\/en\/info-points\/married-and-then\/","title":{"rendered":"Married, and then?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-columns stk-block-columns stk-block stk-9209f95\" data-block-id=\"9209f95\"><style>.stk-9209f95{margin-bottom:0px !important}<\/style><div class=\"stk-row stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content stk-content-align stk-9209f95-column\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-block-column--v2 stk-column stk-block stk-01b3c8a\" data-block-id=\"01b3c8a\"><style>@media screen and (min-width:768px){.stk-01b3c8a{flex:1 1 calc(66.666% - var(--stk-column-gap,0px) * 1 \/ 2 ) 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Other than that, you wrote letters to each other,&#8221; a maid tells us. The girls&#8217; love life is quite a challenge! <\/p><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-block-column--v2 stk-column stk-block stk-f2e8da8\" data-block-id=\"f2e8da8\"><style>@media screen and (min-width:768px){.stk-f2e8da8{flex:1 1 calc(33.333% - var(--stk-column-gap,0px) * 1 \/ 2 ) !important}}.stk-f2e8da8-container{display:flex !important}.stk-f2e8da8-inner-blocks{justify-content:center !important}.stk-f2e8da8-container{flex-direction:column !important}@media screen and (max-width:767px){.stk-f2e8da8-container{margin-top:24px !important;margin-bottom:24px !important}}<\/style><div class=\"stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-f2e8da8-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding\"><div class=\"stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-f2e8da8-inner-blocks\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-image stk-block-image stk-block stk-e3d39de\" data-block-id=\"e3d39de\"><figure class=\"stk-img-wrapper stk-image--shape-stretch\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"stk-img wp-image-182\" src=\"https:\/\/urkerdienstmeisjes.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/samen-op-de-Botter.jpg\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" srcset=\"https:\/\/urkerdienstmeisjes.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/samen-op-de-Botter.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/urkerdienstmeisjes.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/samen-op-de-Botter-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/urkerdienstmeisjes.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/samen-op-de-Botter-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-5735021\" data-block-id=\"5735021\"><style>.stk-5735021 .stk-block-text__text{font-size:0.75rem !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-1,#E63722) !important;font-weight:normal !important;font-family:\"bilo\",Sans-serif !important}@media screen and (max-width:1023px){.stk-5735021 .stk-block-text__text{font-size:0.75rem !important}}<\/style><p class=\"stk-block-text__text has-text-color\">Couple in love on Urk botter (photo Judith de Vries-Oost)<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-columns stk-block-columns stk-block stk-a4e1def\" data-block-id=\"a4e1def\"><style>.stk-a4e1def{display:flex !important}.stk-a4e1def{align-items:flex-start !important}<\/style><div class=\"stk-row stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content stk-content-align stk-a4e1def-column\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-block-column--v2 stk-column stk-block stk-36a1d78\" data-block-id=\"36a1d78\"><style>.stk-36a1d78{align-self:center !important}@media screen and (min-width:768px){.stk-36a1d78{flex:1 1 calc(66.66699999999999% - var(--stk-column-gap,0px) * 1 \/ 2 ) !important}}<\/style><div class=\"stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-36a1d78-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding\"><div class=\"stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-36a1d78-inner-blocks\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-d23aa76\" data-block-id=\"d23aa76\"><p class=\"stk-block-text__text\">The lovers don&#8217;t get to spend much time together. Moreover, marriages often have to be postponed. This is the result of poverty and the lack of houses available on the island. Sometimes the only solution is to move in with (in-law) parents.   <\/p><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-block-column--v2 stk-column stk-block stk-fd46210\" data-block-id=\"fd46210\"><style>@media screen and (min-width:768px){.stk-fd46210{flex:1 1 calc(33.333% - var(--stk-column-gap,0px) * 1 \/ 2 ) !important}}.stk-fd46210-container{display:flex !important}.stk-fd46210-inner-blocks{justify-content:center !important}.stk-fd46210-container{flex-direction:column !important}@media screen and (max-width:767px){.stk-fd46210-container{margin-top:24px !important;margin-bottom:24px !important}}<\/style><div class=\"stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-fd46210-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding\"><div class=\"stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-fd46210-inner-blocks\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-image stk-block-image stk-block stk-2f3e295\" data-block-id=\"2f3e295\"><figure class=\"stk-img-wrapper stk-image--shape-stretch\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"stk-img wp-image-181\" src=\"https:\/\/urkerdienstmeisjes.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Met-Pinksteren-waren-jonge-stelletjes-op-Het-Top-te-vinden-uit-album-Grietje-van-Urk.jpg\" width=\"1908\" height=\"1093\" srcset=\"https:\/\/urkerdienstmeisjes.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Met-Pinksteren-waren-jonge-stelletjes-op-Het-Top-te-vinden-uit-album-Grietje-van-Urk.jpg 1908w, https:\/\/urkerdienstmeisjes.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Met-Pinksteren-waren-jonge-stelletjes-op-Het-Top-te-vinden-uit-album-Grietje-van-Urk-300x172.jpg 300w, https:\/\/urkerdienstmeisjes.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Met-Pinksteren-waren-jonge-stelletjes-op-Het-Top-te-vinden-uit-album-Grietje-van-Urk-1024x587.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/urkerdienstmeisjes.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Met-Pinksteren-waren-jonge-stelletjes-op-Het-Top-te-vinden-uit-album-Grietje-van-Urk-768x440.jpg 768w, https:\/\/urkerdienstmeisjes.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Met-Pinksteren-waren-jonge-stelletjes-op-Het-Top-te-vinden-uit-album-Grietje-van-Urk-1536x880.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1908px) 100vw, 1908px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-b85eaff\" data-block-id=\"b85eaff\"><style>.stk-b85eaff .stk-block-text__text{font-size:0.75rem !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-1,#E63722) !important;font-weight:normal !important;font-family:\"bilo\",Sans-serif !important}@media screen and (max-width:1023px){.stk-b85eaff .stk-block-text__text{font-size:0.75rem !important}}<\/style><p class=\"stk-block-text__text has-text-color\">Young lovers during Pentecost leave (private collection)<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-columns stk-block-columns stk-block stk-56ded67\" data-block-id=\"56ded67\"><style>.stk-56ded67{display:flex !important}.stk-56ded67{align-items:flex-start !important}<\/style><div class=\"stk-row stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content stk-content-align stk-56ded67-column\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-block-column--v2 stk-column stk-block stk-aecaa40\" data-block-id=\"aecaa40\"><style>.stk-aecaa40{align-self:center !important}@media screen and (min-width:768px){.stk-aecaa40{flex:1 1 calc(66.66699999999999% - var(--stk-column-gap,0px) * 1 \/ 2 ) !important}}<\/style><div class=\"stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-aecaa40-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding\"><div class=\"stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-aecaa40-inner-blocks\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-d230934\" data-block-id=\"d230934\"><p class=\"stk-block-text__text\">Marriage is often seen as the escape from working as a maid. After years of running someone else&#8217;s household, young women are eager to have their own place. <\/p><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-block-column--v2 stk-column stk-block stk-d7a299c\" data-block-id=\"d7a299c\"><style>@media screen and (min-width:768px){.stk-d7a299c{flex:1 1 calc(33.333% - var(--stk-column-gap,0px) * 1 \/ 2 ) !important}}.stk-d7a299c-container{display:flex !important}.stk-d7a299c-inner-blocks{justify-content:center !important}.stk-d7a299c-container{flex-direction:column !important}@media screen and (max-width:767px){.stk-d7a299c-container{margin-top:24px !important;margin-bottom:24px !important}}<\/style><div class=\"stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-d7a299c-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding\"><div class=\"stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-d7a299c-inner-blocks\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-image stk-block-image stk-block stk-bd3f5be\" data-block-id=\"bd3f5be\"><figure class=\"stk-img-wrapper stk-image--shape-stretch\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"stk-img wp-image-183\" src=\"https:\/\/urkerdienstmeisjes.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Lumme-Bos.jpg\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/urkerdienstmeisjes.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Lumme-Bos.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/urkerdienstmeisjes.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Lumme-Bos-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/urkerdienstmeisjes.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Lumme-Bos-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/urkerdienstmeisjes.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Lumme-Bos-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/urkerdienstmeisjes.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Lumme-Bos-1536x1152.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-e9d4125\" data-block-id=\"e9d4125\"><style>.stk-e9d4125 .stk-block-text__text{font-size:0.75rem !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-1,#E63722) !important;font-weight:normal !important;font-family:\"bilo\",Sans-serif !important}@media screen and (max-width:1023px){.stk-e9d4125 .stk-block-text__text{font-size:0.75rem !important}}<\/style><p class=\"stk-block-text__text has-text-color\">At home with former maid Lumme Bos-Anker (private collection)<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-619681a\" data-block-id=\"619681a\"><p class=\"stk-block-text__text\">Because they have learned to be independent, the maids are relatively well prepared for the &#8216;lonely&#8217; fisherwoman life. They often earn at least as much as their boyfriend &#8211; this has a positive impact on the relationship.  <\/p><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-f7725c4\" data-block-id=\"f7725c4\"><p class=\"stk-block-text__text\">For some, getting used to island life again is not easy. &#8220;I served Jews and gentiles, but I did not experience with them what I experienced in Urk!&#8221; says one of them. <\/p><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-05a540d\" data-block-id=\"05a540d\"><p class=\"stk-block-text__text\">Soon the women themselves can be found at the harbour with their daughters to say goodbye. The circle starts once more from the beginning&#8230;<\/p><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-a056308\" data-block-id=\"a056308\"><p class=\"stk-block-text__text\">Want to know more? 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